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Paris-bound in a few weeks gimme your best secret shit 🇫🇷 🍾🥐🥖🧀🥂
I can’t get over how beautiful this was (and I’m sorry I wrecked the label, but I think it’s kind of beautiful, too) 🙌🏻✨ Thanks for gorgeous wine and goodwill @robb0514 🍷 More Pacalet and magic on the docket for 2019 ⚡️
YESTERDAY I did not walk with abundance 🤷🏼♀️ I did not open my heart. I did not practice empathy or compassion. I didn’t let it go, I didn’t laugh it off, and my ability to see the humor in it all was... not an ability. There wasn’t a real reason for any of it—we had some real challenging humans at the bar last night, but no more than any Friday. I’m tempted to blame it on the planets, or economic privilege, or literally anything, but REALLY I’m in charge of how I interact with the world around me, so here we are. I’ve put a TON of time and effort into mindfulness practices over the past few years (where my @transcendentalmeditation folks at?), and it has absolutely, completely, 100% changed my life for the better. It’s real, my dudes. BUT BUT BUT I still have garbage days. I still find myself wanting grab suits by the lapels and scream “THERE’S MORE TO LIFE THAN MALBEC.” I still sometimes engage in combative behavior with strangers even though I TOTALLY KNOW BETTER 😫 And it never feels right, I never feel like I “won,” I’m never not disappointed in myself. And so, I have to own those days—as tempting as it is to point fingers and blame whatever whatever, I always have a choice about how I enter communication, and I always have a choice in what flavor of energy I’m putting out into the world. I can also choose to forgive myself when I make a choice that wasn’t awesome. This is a self-indulgent post for my own accountability, but also: EVERYONE FUCKS UP IT’S OK JUST APOLOGIZE AND DO BETTER NEXT TIME ✨ For good measure, here’s a pic of 12-year-old me cliff-jumping with sneakers on like a real goober. Let’s all be our wee fearless goober selves the next time someone throws some shade at us 🤘🏻Life’s too short for bad juju ✨